CHAPTER 7
Recapturing the True Values of Sex -- the Commanded Functions
IT ASSUREDLY IS EVIDENT BY NOW that sex was designed neither as
some-thing evil, filthy and degrading -- nor, on the other hand, to be
used in premarital, extramarital, homosexual or other manner of
perversion.
Beyond Comprehension
Sex did not aimlessly evolve without purpose.
It was designed by the
Creator, and is to be held in sacred and holy honor.
It was created for
man's GOOD, not his destruction.
When God Almighty created sex in
humans, there was PURPOSE so high and wonderful it transcends human
ability fully to comprehend.
It was designed directly to reflect our
relationship with the HOLY GOD! Man's destiny is to be born into the
very God Family -- to become a member of the divine KINGDOM OF GOD.
What
an incomparable destiny! Think of it! To be privileged to enter the
DIVINE FAMILY -- to be enabled to know and experience the blessings of
FAMILY relationship -- a God-plane relationship allowed to no other
species or kind of life -- to be given the joys of the LOVE relationship
of marriage and family here and now -- in this present mortal life! All
this is beyond the comprehension of those deceived by repressive
prudery, and those contaminated by the modern sweep of IMmorality being
falsely labeled "the New Morality.
" God, in His wisdom, knew
the necessity of preparing potential members of His divine Family,
during this life, for that peaceful, happy, loving family relationship.
Man should be boundlessly GRATEFUL, instead of polluting, profaning,
perverting these blessings of God!
God Commands Sex Love
Now back once again to God's original instruction to our first
parents! Because, after creating Adam, God created the female Eve, He
said, "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and
shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh" (Gen.
2:24).
Now what does that mean -- a husband and wife "shall be one
flesh"? Remember, this Genesis record is the most abbreviated
summary of God's instruction to the first man and woman.
Man must not
try to interpret Scripture.
The Scripture interprets itself! One
scripture interprets another! What, then, is the Bible explanation of
what is meant by being "one flesh"? It is explained very
plainly in I Corinthians 6:16.
There we find this very passage of
Genesis 2:24 quoted and explained.
Condemning fornication between a man
and a harlot, this passage says: "Now the body is not for
fornication .
.
.
Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ?
[the temple of the Holy Spirit -- verse 19] shall I then take the
members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid.
What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for
two, saith he, shall be one flesh" (I Cor.
6:13, 15-16).
And verse
18 adds, "FLEE FORNICATION.
" The words in this passage,
"for two, saith he, shall be one flesh," is a direct citation
from Genesis 2:24! That is PLAIN SPEAKING! A man and a woman -- any
woman, even a harlot -- become "one flesh" through the sexual
act! A man and a harlot are not married -- but in coitus they are one
flesh! In I Corinthians 6:16 this act between a man and a harlot is
condemned as a capital SIN! But in Genesis 2:24 -- and also in Jesus'
quotation from it in Matthew 19:5 -- this same act is commanded between
husband and wife! God says a man and wife SHALL -- a direct command! --
"be one flesh.
" A man and a woman (I Cor.
6:16), become
"one flesh" in sexual intercourse.
So, translated into frank
and plain words, God says that, because God made humans male and female
-- a man shall marry a wife, and they shall have sexual intercourse! And
the Bible also commands, "Husbands, love your wives!" And
Jesus added, "What therefore GOD hath joined together, let not man
put asunder" (Matt.
19:6).
MARRIAGE was ordained of GOD! Marriage
has God's blessing! God commanded the first humans to have sexual
intercourse -- and so this relationship is directly commanded by God,
and has God's blessing! But ONLY IN MARRIAGE! Sex in marriage, far from
being a sin, is "what GOD has joined together.
" It is a holy
and sacred relationship! All through the Bible, God condemns lust.
Fornication -- the sex act committed prior to marriage -- is a SIN and
breaks the Seventh Commandment.
Homosexuality is condemned in the Bible
as SIN -- sodomites shall not inherit the Kingdom of God! ANY use of
sex, except as an expression of LOVE in MARRIAGE, and, also, for the
purpose of procreation in marriage, is a SIN, and breaks the Seventh
Commandment! That includes masturbation, bestiality -- any perversion --
ANY USE except that of love and reproduction in marriage! The marriage
relation is the very type of Christ's relation to the Church! The family
relationship is a sacred GOD-PLANE relationship! It must be kept sacred.
For the GOOD of both husband and wife -- as well as for their future in
ETERNITY -- it must be kept inviolate between themselves alone! Now
UNDERSTAND this entire passage in the 6th chapter of I Corinthians --
for you probably have never looked at it closely enough to fully
comprehend it before.
"Glorify God in Your Body"
This chapter continues the thought of the preceding 5th chapter.
It
is, of course, part of a letter written by the apostle Paul to the
Church of God at Corinth.
These people, as a whole, were converted
Christians -- they had really repented of the former life, and had
received God's Holy Spirit.
But of course that does not remove human
nature.
Real repentance and receiving God's Holy Spirit does remove the
spirit of hostility against God and neighbor -- but not natural and
normal self-concern.
A spirit-begotten person still must resist
inordinate desires of the flesh.
Those of the Corinthian church were
still spiritual babes.
Paul's letter was corrective.
Some were being
enticed into fornication and immorality.
One, in particular, had been
indulging in a sex relationship with his stepmother.
It seems the Church
at Corinth was adopting the attitude of some ministers today.
They
showed "compassion" on this fornicator by condoning and
approving his sin.
Paul sternly commanded them, by authority of Jesus
Christ, to put this evildoer out of the Church (chapter 5, to verse 13).
In chapter 6, some church members were taking their personal disputes
before the civil courts.
Paul condemned this, saying they should bring
such matters before Church officials for settlement.
"Do ye not
know that the saints shall judge the world?" he asked.
He was
speaking of the time, after Christ's coming and the resurrection, in the
coming "millennium," when the begotten children of God shall
have been BORN into the world-ruling Kingdom of God! Here Paul reminded
the Church (for his epistle was inspired as God's Word for God's WHOLE
Church, even of our day) of man's tremendous DESTINY! "Know ye not
that we shall judge angels?" he continued (verse 3).
"How much
more things that pertain to this life?" He continues, verse 9:
"Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of
God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor
adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind
[homosexuals], nor thieves .
.
.
shall inherit the kingdom of God.
"
Then Paul shows that, even though one has led such a life -- committed
such sins -- HE CAN BE FORGIVEN, if he repents and turns from them --
and STILL CAN INHERIT ETERNAL LIFE.
In the next (llth) verse, he
continues: "And such were some of you: but ye are washed .
.
.
"
(forgiven and cleansed of such things, through Christ).
This MORALITY
subject is continued in verses 13-15: ".
.
.
Now the body is not for
fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body.
And God hath
both raised up the Lord [Christ's resurrection], and will also raise up
us by his own power.
Know ye not that your bodies are the members of
Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the
members of an harlot? God forbid.
" Then follow the verses first
quoted above: "What? know ye not that he which is joined to an
harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh" (verse
16).
Then verse 18: "FLEE fornication .
.
.
What? know ye not that
your body is the TEMPLE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT which is in you, which ye
have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price [by
Christ's DEATH!]: therefore glorify God in your body .
.
.
" (verses
18-20).
Look at that carefully! The BODY is the temple of the Holy
Spirit.
The BODY does not belong to the individual -- we are not our own
-- Christ bought and paid for us! Therefore glorify GOD -- HOW? It does
not say with "your mind" -- but "in your BODY"! All
through this passage, even from the preceding chapter, the theme has
been SEX.
These two chapters forbid and condemn the MISUSE of sex
through fornication, adultery, homosexuality, masturbation.
But GOD
established MARRIAGE.
Marriage is honorable -- marriage has God's
blessing -- it is GOD who joins the husband and wife in a GOD-PLANE
relationship.
And GOD has said a man and wife shall "be one
flesh" -- shall express marital LOVE in sexual intercourse! This
GLORIFIES GOD -- because God ordained it -- because God actually joined
the husband and wife.
You thus glorify God in your BODY by keeping it
pure from fornication, adultery or other wrong use, and also by this
God-ordained RIGHT and SACRED use of sex in marriage.
This is a direct
command thus to glorify GOD by using the body in this God-ordained use.
Minds Unknowingly Perverted
If a husband and wife approach the sexual union in LOVE, as an
expression of LOVE, comprehending the divine significance and
God-ordained meaning of this use of sex -- and giving God thanks -- they
are glorifying GOD with their bodies! But have some minds become so
perverted by this satanic teaching that even God-ordained MARRIED LOVE
seems shameful, degrading, and leaves some with a sense of guilt? One of
the tragedies of all time is the fact that some actually have been thus
branded! What a catastrophe in human experience! What a cunning,
diabolical deception of Satan! God blessed mankind with the holy
GOD-PLANE institution of marriage -- the very picture of the
Christ-Church relationship.
God made possible this expression of marital
LOVE, by which two whom GOD has joined for life may glorify GOD in their
bodies! God endowed mankind with the God-plane institution of the FAMILY
and the HOME -- the very type of the KINGDOM OF GOD into which we may be
born.
Thus God ordained that even in this mortal life we may experience
the blessing of FAMILY life, to prepare us for life in the Kingdom of
GOD! But humanity has lost the knowledge of these glorious truths! A
clever, subtle devil has instilled in human minds these false attitudes
toward SEX.
By this very means he has blinded men's eyes to these
truths.
He has robbed potential heirs of God of these blessings! Today
the new IMMORALITY calling SEX GOOD -- even in promiscuity -- is
sweeping the world.
Nevertheless, a large portion of girls being drawn
into mental acceptance still FEEL a sense of shame and guilt.
It's a
psychological hangover from the agelong "Old Morality.
" I
know, too, that thousands of wives will read this book -- accept this
TRUTH with gratitude to God -- and still find themselves unable to
eradicate false convictions.
They are simply victims of this agelong
"moral" teaching of Satan.
Many of today's women -- or
especially those of the not-too-long-ago forties and fifties -- have
been taught from early childhood by well-intentioned parents that sex is
some kind of "animal instinct" -- that sex is "not
nice," but shameful, degrading, sinful.
This attitude has been so
deeply embedded they now find themselves unable to free their minds.
Coming to know the truth intellectually, a wife may really want love and
a good physical relationship with her husband.
Yet she finds that she
just somehow can't "let herself go.
" Lovemaking, which a
benevolent God formed her to enjoy with her husband, just somehow seems
to be contaminated.
It leaves her with a sense of shame and guilt.
She
knows better, in her mind -- yet this false sense has been inculcated so
deeply, it seems still to hold her in its clutch.
Do you know why?
"Seared with a Hot Iron"
Do you realize that one can be taught a thing so intensively, so
repeatedly, that the false concept has become literally burned in to the
extent he (or, usually she) is unable to root it out? It becomes a scar
that can never be removed.
It is like a woman -- some thirty-seven years
ago -- who was chief librarian in the science section of a large city
library.
I had been making a critical study of the theory of evolution,
side by side with my first study of the biblical account of special
Creation.
I had found the "trunk of the tree" of the
evolutionary hypothesis.
Every argument -- every purported
"evidence" -- was merely a branch off that main trunk.
If it
fell, the whole tree fell with it.
I had written a brief thesis setting
forth the facts, and since I knew this librarian was well schooled in
science I asked her to read it and give me her evaluation.
"Mr.
Armstrong," she said, with a sharp but half-puzzled gleam in her
eye, "you have an uncanny knack of getting to the very heart and
core of a subject.
You have reduced it to comparatively few words.
You
have, beyond question, felled the trunk of the tree of evolution.
With
my mind, I can recognize that you have disproved the only premise that
could be PROOF of the doctrine.
Your argument is correct.
Your facts are
true.
Yet, in spite of your positive PROOF that evolution has no
foundation, I could never in all my life cease to believe in it.
I am
simply too steeped in it.
All my life I have been associated in
scientific circles.
I have devoted years doing graduate work at
Columbia, the University of Chicago and other universities.
Everything I
have always read, been taught and accepted in every field of science is
based on evolution.
You force me to admit evolution is unproved by your
paper -- yet I am unable to put evolution out of my mind.
" A
person's conscience may be "seared with a hot iron" (I Tim.
4:2).
We can have a false teaching so deeply burned into our minds that
we are "given over to BELIEVE a lie.
" We read, in II
Thessalonians 2 of those who have been indoctrinated with Satan's
delusions, that "God shall send them strong delusion, that they
should believe a lie" (verse 11).
Because of this ungodly teaching
that sex, even in in marriage, is degrading and shameful, countless
wives, even after coming to a knowledge of God's TRUTH, are utterly
unable to bring themselves to feel right -- as God intended -- about the
marriage relationship.
This is actually a form of perversion -- mental
perversion in which the mind has been trained to reject what is holy and
good and God-ordained as if it were something evil! It is incurable by
human means -- incurable except by divine miracle! It takes God's power!
Most assuredly some who will read this book will find themselves in this
category.
With their minds, they will now see the TRUTH.
Yet, in the
marriage relationship, they will automatically freeze up in dread.
They
will, in spite of true KNOWLEDGE, feel dirty, with a sense of
condemnation and guilt.
This has been "brain-washed" into
their subconscious minds -- burned in -- as if cauterized; and
cauterizing deadens sensation.
To enjoy the rich BLESSINGS a loving GOD
wishes to lavish on every true wife who follows HIS LAWS and is led by
HIS SPIRIT, God's TRUTH must be not merely recognized by the mind -- it
must be acted upon! Every victim of this foul satanic mind-branding
should pray earnestly, prevailingly with the whole heart, to the Holy
GOD to remove root and branch that false concept.
Pray, as did David,
"Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit
[attitude] within me" (Ps.
51:10).
When David, filled with remorse
and emotion, prayed this prayer, he was in brokenhearted repentance
because of his SEX sin with Bathsheba, wife of Uriah.
He was repenting
of his wrong attitude toward sex.
He was beseeching God to take this
dirty attitude of lust out of his heart -- to create in him a clean
heart, and to restore a right spirit -- or attitude -- a right concept
toward sex -- in his mind.
Read again and again this and the preceding
three chapters.
Read all the Bible passages.
Learn to OBEY God gladly,
wholeheartedly, in love and loving anticipation, when He commands,
"Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the
Lord" (Eph.
5:22, Col.
3:18).
Even as husbands are commanded to
love their wives, so wives are commanded to give love to their husbands
(Tit.
2:4).
God's LAW -- God's WAY to every happiness -- safeguards this
holy, pure, righteous, personal and intimate loving marriage
relationship.
It has God's BLESSING! Travel this way, in prayer and
thanksgiving, in love, and in deep gratitude to a benevolent and loving
GOD!
Frank New Testament Teaching
Now study the 7th chapter of I Corinthians.
The BIBLE -- as
originally inspired -- SPEAKS OUT in plain and frank language, not only
against every misuse and perversion of sex, but just as frankly
instructing us in God-ordained right uses! Remember, we read the Bible
as it has been translated into the English language.
Some translations
-- especially the Authorized (King James) version -- were made at a time
when sex was universally regarded as shameful and evil.
The King James
translators tried to cover up the true meaning, feeling it was "not
nice" to speak so plainly.
But every original word was inspired by
God's HOLY SPIRIT! And it is time we throw off Satan's false accusations
that some of the Word of God is "not nice.
" It is holy and
sacred! For this reason, the Moffatt translation will be used, as well
as the King James, in expounding this crucial New Testament chapter on
SEX.
The Moffatt translation renders the inspired original Greek in the
English words of its TRUE MEANING.
This was written originally as a
letter from the apostle Paul to the Church of God at Corinth.
But it was
inspired through the Holy Spirit.
It is part of GOD'S WORD for us today.
We have seen, earlier in this chapter, that in his 5th and 6th chapters
the apostle was writing about SEX.
There were sex abuses -- sex misuses
-- in that Church, which God through Paul condemned.
But we have seen
how Paul, in the latter part of the 6th chapter, taught that husbands
and wives, through God's sacred MARRIAGE institution, should GLORIFY GOD
in their bodies -- by giving LOVE through sex between husband and wife
-- as well as by keeping their bodies clean from fornication, adultery
or misuse.
Chapter 7 continues the instruction from GOD of the true
God-intended use of sex.
Notice verses 1 and 2: "Now concerning the
things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a
woman.
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own
wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
" NOTICE THAT! Get
its real meaning! Every man and woman should marry -- but WHY? Because
it is a sin to remain single? No -- verse 1 says it would be good for
"a man not to touch a woman" -- that is, to remain free from
sex, and unmarried.
It is not WRONG to remain single.
Then WHY does this
passage teach that men and women should marry? Does it say "marry
in order to beget children"? No, it says nothing here about the
purpose of marriage being reproduction.
WHY, then? This scripture
answers, "To avoid fornication"! Paul has just been condemning
premarital sexual intercourse -- FORNICATION -- as a SIN, which breaks
the Seventh Commandment.
The plain teaching here is that, to avoid
sexual intercourse out of marriage, a man and woman should marry! Have
sexual intercourse IN marriage! This has God's blessing.
This is
commanded by God! To avoid the SIN of fornication -- unmarried sex --
and to have the sexual relationship with God's blessing in TRUE LOVE,
let men and women marry! The PURPOSE here given is not reproduction, but
lawful and righteous sexual intercourse instead of unlawful and sinful
fornication.
This becomes even more plain as we proceed.
Plain Speaking
Now verse 3: "Let the husband render unto the wife due
benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
" The King
James translators in the year 1611 tried to translate this in
"modest" language, and this largely covers up the true
meaning.
However, "benevolence" does mean disposition to do
good, charitableness, love.
Now read it with the false modesty stripped
away, in the Moffatt translation, "The husband must give the wife
her conjugal dues, and the wife in the same way must give the husband
his .
.
.
" And the word "conjugal" means sexual or marital.
Notice, in this verse these points.
The sexual relation in marriage is a
command, "The husband must .
.
.
and the wife .
.
.
must .
.
.
"
Notice, next, God's principle of giving, sharing.
Each is to GIVE this
sexual-intercourse love to the other.
God does not speak of it in terms
of carnal taking, or receiving sensual gratification -- but in terms of
giving love.
Continue, verse 4 -- Moffatt: ".
.
.
a wife cannot do as
she pleases with her body -- her husband has power, and in the same way
a husband cannot do as he pleases with his body -- his wife has
power.
" Notice how the principle of God's Law -- that of LOVE -- of
GIVING of outgoing concern rather than selfish gratification, is
stressed.
It is a command, "a wife cannot .
.
.
" It does not say
"ought not"; it flatly forbids, as contrary to the Law -- and
consequently SIN -- for either husband or wife to use his or her body
selfishly.
The wife made frigid by false concepts must not withhold
sexual intercourse from her husband.
Her sex organs do not belong to her
-- they belong to her husband! In the same way, a husband cannot
withhold participation in coitus from his wife -- or, conversely,
neither shall a husband make inconsiderate demands on his wife, so that
he may use his sex organs as he pleases for his selfish gratification.
His sex anatomy does not belong to him.
Christ bought both husband and
wife with the price of His very life.
Actually our bodies belong to HIM
-- but He, here, gives the right and power of the husband's body over to
the wife, and the right and authority over the wife's body to the
husband.
Yet the teaching of God -- the WAY of His Law -- denies
selfish, taking, and demands considerate giving.
The motive and
intention are here involved.
Actually, it devolves down to direction of
mind and intent -- to attitude.
The man who argues that this verse of
God's teaching gives him the right to make inconsiderate and selfish
demands on the use of his wife's body -- arguing that her body belongs
to him -- overlooks the fact that his motive and purpose is merely to
use his wife's body for his own sensual gratification without any
consideration or outgoing concern for her wishes.
There are times, in
the life of any married couple, when it would be cruel, totally
inconsiderate, utterly selfish on the part of a husband to demand his
own satisfaction and gratification by use of his wife's body.
At such
times, God's teaching, when understood, says the husband's sexual
apparatus does not belong to him -- he has no right to use it selfishly
at cost of pain, suffering or mental harassment to the wife.
God
commands each husband to be considerate of his wife's feelings -- to be
tender, gentle, as much concerned for her desires and comfort and
pleasure as his own.
On the other hand, there are times when sexual
union is a definite need for a husband.
At such times, the wife must be
considerate, and not defraud her husband.
At such times she must not
claim her body belongs to her and deny it to him.
Then again, the
selfish "frigid" wife who deliberately denies love in coitus
to her husband, merely because she "isn't in the mood," is
violating God's command which says "a wife cannot do as she pleases
with her body -- her husband has power" -- her body belongs to him.
God's Law, at all times, is the way of love -- which is concern and
consideration for the other at least equal with that for the self.
Selfishness becomes lust.
LOVE flees when the whole concern is for self.
Verse 5 of this 7th chapter of I Corinthians becomes still more plain:
"Do not withhold sexual intercourse from one another, unless you
agree to do so for a time, in order to devote yourselves to prayer.
Then
come together again.
You must not let Satan tempt you through
incontinence.
" Now notice that same verse in the King James
version.
It shows that abstaining from sexual intercourse in marriage --
except by mutual agreement at infrequent intervals -- or, for either one
to selfishly deny coitus to the other -- is actually DEFRAUDING the
other! In other and plainer words, to practice what falsely called
"Christian" teaching has demanded for 18 + centuries --
withholding sexual intercourse except for begetting children -- is a
direct violation of God's teaching -- is ITSELF SIN AND DISOBEDIENCE TO
GOD -- and is DEFRAUDING one's mate! This dualistic paganism piled up a
mountain of human woe and frustration through these 18 + centuries
higher than all the geological mountains of earth piled one on top of
the other! It taught millions of husbands and wives to disobey God's
commands -- to commit SIN -- and the human suffering is the evidence.
Obedience to GOD'S Law brings happiness and joy.
SIN brings suffering
and misery.
The very fruits of this medieval prudery demonstrate that it
has been the WAY OF SlN! Here, then, is that same verse 5 in the King
James translation: "Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with
consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer;
and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your
incontinency.
"
Painful Experience SPEAKS OUT!
Not only does ALMIGHTY GOD, through the Bible, speak out in plain
language against this pagan and medieval teaching.
The VOICE OF CRUEL
EXPERIENCE also cries out! This stern teaching that sex must be used
only to beget children has put marriages beyond count into an injurious,
impossible situation.
Augustine, Aquinas and the church
"fathers" who preceded them in their "chaste
severity" could see no LOVE in the marital union.
Marital sex,
except for procreation, was viewed always as lust, concupiscence,
degrading and sinful self-gratification.
And, even if a husband and wife
mated in coitus for the express PURPOSE of begetting a baby, they viewed
it with suspicion.
Of course those men -- at least Augustine, and those
priests after him including Aquinas -- never experienced the happy joys
of married LOVE.
Augustine's conscience was wracked with guilt over his
fornication and sex vices.
He NEVER MARRIED.
He largely influenced the
establishment of priesthood celibacy.
He was not without quantitative
sex experience.
But all that experience was motivated by concupiscence.
He never experienced the GIVING of love in marriage.
He knew NOTHING of
its happy and blissful Joys.
All he knew, by experience, was inordinate,
self-desire, followed by the conscience-stricken pangs of
self-condemnation and guilt.
Such men never experienced that clean,
wholesome, LOVE of a pure wife, mingled with respect, admiration, high
regard, esteem and honor.
Yet thousands of intelligent husbands and
wives, victims of that repressive teaching, have come to see -- in spite
of that teaching -- that the expression of pure LOVE between husband and
wife through coitus is every whit as vital a purpose as producing
children.
Of course, probably the overwhelming majority, blinded by the
false teaching, never discovered this.
But where did it leave those who
did? Thousands of case histories -- and I know of enough to be sure of
what I am saying -- have found that this repression robbed their
marriage of spontaneity and joy.
There are times when circumstances
dictate either the spacing of the next child, or else that there should
be no more children.
Even in the case of couples who have discovered the
true, clean and beautiful happiness of giving and bestowing LOVE in the
sexual union, where does this teaching leave them? They have been
sternly taught that "they must hear the CHURCH!" To disobey
this teaching they have been led to believe, will mean an eternity of
indescribable torture of burning forever and ever in hell! This has been
made REAL to them! They are filled with fear and the terror of it! They
dare not disobey their church teaching.
And, usually, they want to obey
it -- because they have been made to believe it is right! So what
happens? They strive to live without sex.
Sex comes to carry the hateful
meaning of FEAR that destroys love! Many, in their desperate dilemma,
have gone tearfully to their parish priest for counsel and help.
And if
and when they are told that the only difficulty is lack of self-control,
they are really frustrated.
They may struggle and wrestle with the one
allowance of the church -- resorting to the "rhythm method.
"
In desperate determination, they restrain themselves for what is
calculated (often erroneously) to be the prescribed period.
Then, often,
they find this method simply DIDN'T WORK! And today many priests are
beginning to see -- in their hearts if not in public statement -- the
evils of this traditional misteaching.
Today many doctors admit that
this "rhythm method" is a faulty theory.
There is no part of
the month during which all women are for a certainty immune from
conception.
There may be a decrease in probability -- but the matter is
only relative.
Medical charts show conceptions occurring at any or all
times of the month.
And so millions, under the whiplash of this
UNscriptural teaching, even if they had once found the joys of true
marital love, find their marriages twisted.
Wives become frigid.
Husbands become frustrated.
Case histories by the uncounted thousands
PROVE that the biblical way, once rightly understood, is RIGHT and its
FRUITS are abundant happiness and joy.
But man's way, whether of
medieval prudery or modern promiscuity, produces only the bitter grapes
of wrath!